I always initiate conversation with her reddit. Would that bother you? Archived post.

I always initiate conversation with her reddit. [23/M] I always have to ask out my girlfriend or start conversations with her. We've had no problems whatsoever, but it irks me that whenever we go out on dates or converse, I always have to initiate/ask her out. She's given me her number, revealed some personal stuff about her and it's safe to say that we both enjoy talking to each other. i feel like i have t do everything and im… It's okay to always be the one to initiate contact with a friend. Maybe they don't start the conversations/texts because they feel that they have nothing of value or interesting to say, so why should they waste your time with a meaningless conversation. 2) Don't ask for advice for romantic relationships, try /r/Relationship_Advice instead! 3) Always follow the Reddiquette! Even with my longtime friends, people i've known for years, I'm always the one texting first, saying hi. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Some girls like mystery, they don’t always want an open book (again, in the early stages). Request a little effort and offer nothing more than your company. You’re always the one to initiate the conversations. This is my problem and the main reason why I don't usually start conversations unless it is specifically school or work related. I'm 23 (male)and the person talking to is 26 (female). You can continue the conversation, but with less in depth conversation. I started to wonder if I was being annoying, so I stopped. Just because they don't reach out to you first doesn't mean they don't like you or want to hang out with you. 486 votes, 60 comments. All in all, the interest is there. If you don’t start the convo back up, they simply don’t do it. I think it's both true that many women often wait for a man to initiate AND this particular woman does not seem very interested in you. . Most of the time, when a girl never initiates but still agrees to go on dates with you and replies to your texts, it means she's not that interested but she enjoys your company enough that she'd rather say yes than experience the discomfort of rejecting you. Would that bother you? Archived post. Been talking to this girl i like through IG and we have in depth conversations and i really enjoy talking to her however i always have to start the conversation. Does she ask you questions and seem engaged in the conversation when you do initiate, or does she mostly just reply to what you write to her? Past experience has show, at least for me, that if I'm the one always initiating a conversation, I can stop and never hear from a person again, so they were never really interested in me or spending time with me. Oct 29, 2024 · A good way to gauge his interest might be to initiate the conversation, ask him to take you out somewhere fun. But. Also both of you enjoy texting, and having conversations through text. The more you talk on the surface in between few in-depth questions, it’ll higher your chances of her curiosity. asking them how they are doing, sending texts and messages, asking to hang out etc. If someone believes you are worth the effort, they will make the effort. "Is it bad to always be the one who initiates?" The real question is: "If you don't initiate will they reach out to you?" When the answer is "no" then you're the only one trying to develop something. How can I make it less one-sided? Been in this relationship for eight months. Rules: 1) Absolutely no put-downs or trolling. gkckd yjis wtfwd ahkiv xxsjj oqvzec lfvomy lbzh rhqy qrqaxyy